Cohabitation, sometimes called
consensual union or de facto marriage refers to unmarried heterosexual couples
living together in an intimate relationship without having gone through a
ceremony of marriage (Parry, 1981).
Cohabitation is an act which is very
much rampant among students in our campuses today. It has gradually found its
way into the norms of a campus life and it is no longer strange for two
students of the opposite sex to live together and perform most responsibilities
or duties expected of married couples.
A study regarding cohabitation in
tertiary institutions which used Adekunle Ajasin University, Akungba (AAUA) as
a case study stated the following findings: between 25% and 50% of the
university students engage in the act of cohabitation; students engage in the
act majorly for social influence, companionship, lack of accommodation, to seek
pleasure, love for the other party and financial dependence.
It was also
observed that 75.4% of the respondents disagreed that cohabitation helps youth
prepare adequately for marriage.
Even though in the name of
modernization it is no longer frowned at like before, it is important to take
note of our root as a country.
No culture or religion in Nigeria approves the
act, therefore there is need to curb this act before it finally gets out of
hand.
There has been so much talk and research about cohabitation, but the
question is what are the actions that have taken to curb this act and has there
been consistency in taking these actions?
Cohabitation has negative impacts on
students and mostly makes either or both of them (students involved) misplace
their priorities. It also tells on their academic performance (which was their
main aim of being in school).
As a result of being sexually involved, the
partners put themselves at the risk of contracting sexually transmitted
diseases. It also increases the risk of unwanted pregnancy which sometimes
leads to abortion and finally death or complications.
Therefore, concerted efforts must be
made to reduce the prevalence of cohabitation in Nigeria tertiary institutions.
School administrations, students, parents, government and non-governmental
organisations must collectively unite to fight cohabitation.
Provision of more
on-campus accommodation is imperative and there must be regular sentization
programmes for students. Students should also aim to be independent and not be
bound to someone else; doing their best to concentrate on their goals and shun
cohabitation.
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